| Introduction | p. 1 | |
| The Basic Stuff | p. 7 | |
| Friends and Family | p. 46 | |
| Dating, Marriage, and Kids | p. 71 | |
| Sex | p. 85 | |
| God and Religion | p. 95 | |
| School | p. 106 | |
| Parades, Activism, and Discrimination | p. 119 | |
| For Parents | p. 130 | |
| Resources | p. 157 | |
| Special Acknowledgment | p. 178 | |
| Acknowledgments | p. 180 | |
| Index | p. 182 |