| | Introduction | p. xi |
| | Understanding Men | |
| | The Making of a Man | p. 3 |
| | Dating by the Decades: A Guide to How Men Feel About Relationships in Their Twenties, Thirties, Forties, Fifties, and Beyond | p. 17 |
| | Are Women Intimidating? Myths Versus Facts | p. 37 |
| | Every Sugar Daddy Ain't Sweet | p. 55 |
| | Finding A Man | |
| | The Standoff: He Won't Commit, You Won't Leave- Now What? | p. 69 |
| | Let's Stop the Games: Asking Men the Right Questions to Get the Real Answers | p. 93 |
| | Presentation Is Everything: Don't Let Your "Off" Day Be Her "On" Day | p. 109 |
| | Keeping A Man | |
| | The Cookie: More on Why Men Need It, Why You Should Keep It | p. 127 |
| | The "N" Word: How to Get What You Want Without Nagging | p. 145 |
| | Show Your Appreciation: A Little Bit of Gratitude Goes a Long Way | p. 161 |
| | Dollars and Sense: How to Handle Money Problems with Men | p. 177 |
| | The Art of the Deal: How to Get What You Want Out of a Man | p. 193 |
| | Questions And Commandments | |
| | Ask Steve: More Quick Answers to the Burning Questions You've Always Wanted to Ask | p. 213 |
| | For the Men ... Ten Commandments to Pleasing a Woman | p. 229 |
| | Glossary of Steve's Terms | p. 233 |
| | Acknowledgments | p. 235 |