| | Introduction | p. xi |
| | Dedication | p. xiv |
| | What the Stones Know | p. 1 |
| | Years of Solitude | p. 2 |
| | Orange Juice | p. 3 |
| | The Wren | p. 4 |
| | My Father's Coat | p. 5 |
| | David | p. 6 |
| | My Father in the Stacks | p. 7 |
| | Battleground State Park | p. 8 |
| | Nine | p. 10 |
| | Emergency Situation | p. 12 |
| | The Ants Are Using Sticks for Walls | p. 13 |
| | The Changeling | p. 14 |
| | The Father, Who Could Not Swim | p. 16 |
| | Son, Skating | p. 17 |
| | The New Blade | p. 18 |
| | Teenagers | p. 19 |
| | Devotion | p. 20 |
| | Custody | p. 21 |
| | Mother's Day | p. 22 |
| | Waking Instructions | p. 23 |
| | Simple Song of Being Oneself | p. 24 |
| | I Myself | p. 25 |
| | And sometimes i hear this song in my head | p. 26 |
| | Shedding Skin | p. 28 |
| | Song of the Prodigal Son | p. 29 |
| | Aqueducts | p. 30 |
| | Invisibility | p. 32 |
| | Breath | p. 33 |
| | Almost Evenly Divided | p. 34 |
| | At Home | p. 35 |
| | Child Proof | p. 36 |
| | Taking My Son to His First Day of Kindergarten | p. 37 |
| | Bittersweet | p. 38 |
| | First Grade | p. 40 |
| | The New World | p. 42 |
| | The Forest of My Hair | p. 43 |
| | Returning to the West: Mountain Legend | p. 44 |
| | Drifter, Owl, Mouse | p. 45 |
| | Kind | p. 46 |
| | Last-Minute Message for a Time Capsule | p. 47 |
| | That Was the Summer We Had Animals | p. 48 |
| | Lens | p. 49 |
| | Sudden | p. 52 |
| | Organdy Curtains, Window, South Bank of the Ohio | p. 53 |
| | On the Suicide of a Young Boy I Did Not Know | p. 54 |
| | What Grandma Taught Her | p. 56 |
| | Seeing for You | p. 57 |
| | Leaving the Light On | p. 58 |
| | What We Want | p. 59 |
| | What Great Grief Has Made the Empress Mute | p. 60 |
| | Silence | p. 61 |
| | What Gets Lost/Lo Que Se Pierde | p. 62 |
| | Naming | p. 64 |
| | The Higher Reaches | p. 65 |
| | Here yet be dragons | p. 66 |
| | Learning Persian | p. 67 |
| | Driving | p. 68 |
| | The Sparrow and the Crumb | p. 69 |
| | Other Lives | p. 70 |
| | Hitchhiker | p. 72 |
| | The Family Car | p. 73 |
| | "I never saw the road between our ..." | p. 74 |
| | So Far | p. 75 |
| | Travelling Light | p. 76 |
| | Legend | p. 77 |
| | Stranded | p. 78 |
| | Today I'll Sit Still | p. 80 |
| | This Isn't Fair | p. 81 |
| | "Someone told me you were in love ..." | p. 82 |
| | Insurance | p. 83 |
| | "What are friends for, my mother asks..." | p. 84 |
| | Going Home | p. 85 |
| | That Kind of Marriage | p. 86 |
| | She had thought | p. 87 |
| | Divorce | p. 88 |
| | My lost father | p. 89 |
| | It Was Here-- | p. 90 |
| | Mindleaving | p. 91 |
| | Shrink-wrapped | p. 92 |
| | Where on This Earth | p. 94 |
| | Garage Sale | p. 96 |
| | Words My Friend Can't Bring Himself to Say | p. 97 |
| | Journey | p. 98 |
| | What Came to Me | p. 99 |
| | Benavides, Texas, 1906 | p. 100 |
| | Letter to an Ancestor | p. 101 |
| | The House at 5 Allende Street | p. 102 |
| | Barns Collapsing | p. 104 |
| | Dream House | p. 105 |
| | Small Town | p. 106 |
| | What Was Once Reached For | p. 108 |
| | Father, Herald Me Home | p. 109 |
| | The Lost Glove Is Happy | p. 110 |
| | A Serenade | p. 112 |
| | A Game Nobody Won | p. 113 |
| | My Grandmother Told Us Jokes | p. 114 |
| | The Mentalist Leaves the Stage | p. 116 |
| | Part | p. 117 |
| | Plum Trees | p. 118 |
| | Work | p. 120 |
| | Sister | p. 122 |
| | The Question | p. 124 |
| | My Valhalla | p. 126 |
| | The colors of Another Home | p. 128 |
| | Fame | p. 129 |
| | Tutu on the Curb | p. 130 |
| | Passing Necessity | p. 131 |
| | Any Morning | p. 132 |
| | Tough Ride | p. 133 |
| | Unveiling the Vietnam Memorial | p. 134 |
| | Thinking of What the Jury Is Deliberating | p. 136 |
| | I Give You Back | p. 138 |
| | Food. Music. Memory | p. 140 |
| | The Memory Prayer | p. 141 |
| | Raised Voices | p. 142 |
| | Lament | p. 144 |
| | Model of the Heart at the Franklin Institute | p. 145 |
| | Each Night | p. 146 |
| | Waking Up in the Morning | p. 147 |
| | Truth | p. 148 |
| | Regrets on the Way to an Airport | p. 149 |
| | Processes | p. 150 |
| | Ghazal (For William Stafford) | p. 152 |
| | Autumn Quince | p. 153 |
| | Cannon Beach | p. 154 |
| | Christmas | p. 155 |
| | Avalanche | p. 156 |
| | Year's End | p. 158 |
| | How Forgetting Works in Late Winter | p. 159 |
| | Secret of Life | p. 160 |
| | Tune | p. 161 |
| | Something I Remember | p. 162 |
| | The Moment for Which There Is No Name | p. 163 |
| | Letter to Terry Dobson | p. 164 |
| | Obituaries | p. 166 |
| | The Black and the Dazzle | p. 167 |
| | Valencia Street | p. 168 |
| | Wilderness Poem | p. 169 |
| | Dreaming Them Into the World Again | p. 170 |
| | Notes on the Contributors | p. 172 |
| | Acknowledgments | p. 191 |
| | Permissions | p. 192 |
| | Index to Losses | p. 201 |
| | Index to Poems | p. 203 |
| | Index to Poets | p. 205 |